5 Ways To Identify A Narcissist
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By: Jamila Gomez
A narcissist is essentially someone who is excessively self-centered and obsessed with themselves. They constantly seek attention and validation from others and have little to no regard for anyone else’s feelings or needs. Narcissistic individuals can be highly controlling and manipulative, often using emotional manipulation to get what they want. They may also gaslight people, making them question their reality and memory. If you suspect you are in any kind of relationship with a narcissistic person, pay attention to the signs. Also, if you suspect that you are in any kind of relationship with a narcissist, it is essential to seek professional help so that you can learn how to best deal with this challenging individual.
Here are five red flags to look out for:
Excessive need for admiration and attention:
Narcissists have an excessive need for attention and admiration, manifesting as a desire to be the center of attention, a belief in their superiority, or a constant craving for affirmation and approval. While it is perfectly normal to want some level of attention and admiration from those important to us, narcissists take this to an extreme, often needing constant reassurance and validation.
Lack of empathy and disregard for other people’s feelings:
Narcissists have a bloated ego, a need for excessive admiration, and a lack of empathy for others. But what does that look like in a relationship? A narcissistic individual is often dismissive and critical, making the other person feel invisible. They can also become very angry quickly and lack the ability to see other people’s perspectives. As a result, the other person often feels emotionally drained and unsupported.
Taking advantage of people and using them to get what they want:
Narcissists are often very charming at first, but eventually, their true colors show. They are manipulative and controlling, taking advantage of people to get what they want. If you are in any kind of relationship with a narcissist, be aware of their behavior to protect yourself from being used.
Grandiose sense of self-importance:
Narcissists often have a flamboyant sense of prestige, magnifying their accomplishments and talents and expecting recognition as superior. They may become angry or disappointed when they feel they are not receiving the recognition they deserve. Some narcissists are control freaks, expecting their partner to comply with their standards and meet their needs without regard for the other person’s wants or needs.
Patterns of intense and unstable relationships, quickly switching from honor to reduction:
Narcissists often see their partners as perfect and unconditionally loving. However, eventually, they begin fault-finding, picking at every little thing they may take issue with. They may also withdraw their affection and become emotionally distant.
If you’re always around someone who exhibits these traits, you should either learn how to combat it or move on. Narcissists often take advantage of their partners by being manipulative and controlling. Pay attention to these red flags to help you make an informed decision about the future of your relationship.
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