Navigating Rejection and Redirection
Developing the patience and foresight to see how a change in plans could be a blessing in disguise is both a power and a response that will certainly aid you as you continue to become your full version of yourself! We discuss navigation rejection and redirection here!
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By: Jordan King
I know…I know things were supposed to go that way, but they went this way. It is very normal to feel frustration and disappointment when things may not go completely as we envision. Developing the patience and foresight to see how a change in plans could actually be a blessing in disguise is both a power and a response that will certainly aid you as you continue to become your full version of yourself!
Purpose of Planning
It’s common to hear of the idea of a long-term, five-year plan when trying to conceive or make sense of where you want to end up in life. Even a short-term plan of three to six months is seen as a necessity when looking ahead. To be honest, a lot of life and circumstances are left up to chance and preparation. Choosing to work on building yourself and your skill set is more ideal than being focused on specific goalposts that can change at a whim due to outside forces. Having an idea or even a general target is fine to maintain a structure towards what you’re working on, while also allowing yourself to be flexible within the journey.
Reflection on Path
Our world, both digital and real, can be quite noisy and distracting. Many things vie for our attention, finances, and energy, making it borderline exhausting to keep up or even keep track of ourselves at times. Slowing down and taking the time to step back and observe can help with insight and drive, as well as avoid being wasteful with our time. Seeking out some outside perspectives from trusted sources can aid in our decision-making, as well as allow us to see our own actions from a different lens.
Meaning within the Mission
Part of the beauty in something working against our favor, even if it may have been considered a dream or passion project, is the fact that all things tend to come and work together on their own schedule. Practicing a mix of patience and action within the discomfort brings both some understanding to the situation as well as purpose. Continuing to show up and consider all available options will enhance our own drive, as well as build resilience as we continue to forge our paths and create our dreams.
As much as it can seem at times that we possess little control over things when they go wrong or don’t seem to work out; we actually make up for that sense of lack through our ability to react to and redirect situations that aren’t initially ideal. It’s cliché to discuss things happening or not for a reason, or as part of a greater plan; however, a situation boils down only to your perspective of how to handle it and what to do to improve. Staying positive and open-minded will help things turn out in your favor!
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Navigating the New Year: Tools for Emotional Well-being and Success
As this year begins, it is important to reflect on and gather tools for emotional regulation, enabling you to perform at your peak while giving yourself grace during the process. We discuss it here!
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By: Jordan King
With any new year comes new expectations and goals, along with a plethora of considerations regarding how one wants to proceed. Trying to maintain balance and a sense of self can become overwhelming, especially when there is a lot you'd like to accomplish or change. As this year begins, it is important to reflect on and gather tools for emotional regulation, enabling you to perform at your peak while giving yourself grace during the process.
Breath Control:
Power and control over your breathing can center you back to the present and alleviate any pressure you may be feeling. Taking this pause also allows you to check in with your body and mind, assessing your response to current news or situations and allowing time to respond properly. Take slow breaths in, hold briefly, and then release. Instantly, blood pressure is reduced, and muscles become less tense. There is no right or wrong way to breathe, and various styles or methods may bring better results as you adapt them to your routine.
Plan Ahead:
There is a time to act and a time to wait. Using discernment guides us toward what is most important for the moment. When possible, giving yourself time to complete your task is more ideal than trying to finish at the last minute. Even when things are at the wire and you need to act fast, being methodical and following through will yield fewer mistakes and better control during completion!
Pivot if Needed:
You can usually tell when things may need another approach or direction. Yet, for many of us, we're so focused on the end goal that we sometimes overcommit to the process instead of implementing the needed change. Pivoting and revising your task or project have the potential to create better results rather than holding on to a vision that may not hold up as well as you may believe.
There's Always Tomorrow:
Time isn't promised, and in our fast-paced culture, it can be easy to feel like we're running out of time to complete what we need. While I can’t predict the future, I’m fairly certain that we should have another sunrise coming up. After the end of the day, communicate and articulate if you need more time for completion. For tasks already on a deadline or timeline, don't fret as you get closer to the finish line! Prioritize and visualize the steps needed to deliver the best quality possible.
Situations will still arise, but it's crucial to be smart in how we handle and react to moments that may cause stress and discomfort. With time and practice, even when feelings begin to brew, you can stay leveled and perform at your best. No matter what life throws at you, there is always a new day and new opportunities coming!